Week 23 - Funeral and Home

The week started off with a chilly day, which seemed appropriate for Auntie Margaret's funeral. We'd be busy all day on Monday and then start back the next day. It was going to be a long week.

After breakfast at the hotel, we headed to St. Luke's - the church we grew up in and where the funeral would be. We got there at 9:30. The visitation was at 10:00 and the funeral at 11:00. Auntie Margaret looked nothing like herself and there were fewer people there than I thought there'd be but it was a very nice service that Aunt Margaret had planned herself. The new priest, who was new to St. Luke's and new as a priest too, was great. We went directly to the cemetary for a small service in their chapel and then we found Nana and Papa's grave to take a pic for ancestry. The funeral lunch was at a nice Italian restaurant, where I got to visit with my cousins, which was lovely, and the food was delicious. We said our goodbyes and headed out.

Dottie and I went to East Greenwich and did the obligatory drive through the old neighborhood on the way to my oldest friend's mother's house. She has cancer so I wanted to make sure I paid her a visit. We then went to Deanne's so I could see her new house, which was lovely, and we chatted for a bit. We had made plans to meet Janice at The Newport Creamery for ice cream and closed it down, with more chatting. I had only been in Rhode Island for mere hours but I'd managed to fit lots in besides the funeral. We'd be leaving first thing the next morning so went back to the hotel to get a good night's sleep.

After another hotel breakfast, we started driving. Having enjoyed Budd Lake Diner, we stopped at another fave place of Dottie's in Mt. Arlington - Davey's Dogs. I love a good hotdog so was happy with it. We drove around her old neighborhood and found her condo before getting back on the road. We drove through Pennsylvania all day, stopping at an Applebee's somewhere for supper and staying in Youngstown, Ohio, found with an app my friend Ana recommended - hoteltonight. It was a much better experience than on our way to Rhode Island.

The hotel breakfast was pretty lackluster so we went to Starbuck's across the street and hit the road. Our goal was to not take the toll road but smaller highways and hit some thrifts along the way in Indiana. It took us a few hours to get through Ohio and we found a great mom & pop restaurant for lunch and had time to hit 2 MCC (Menonite Central Committee) thrifts and found some treasures at both. We ran out of time for the last thrift but got back to Dottie's in time for pizza for supper. We then went out for soft serve followed by porch time. I went to bed happy to know it was my last night not sleeping in my own bed.

My intent was to leave at 9:00 to miss Chicago traffic but I woke up at 4:30 when my nephew, who gets up early for work, was yelling at the dog outside my room. I read until 5:15 but when it was clear I wasn't going to fall back asleep, I got up, ate breakfast and headed out. I didn't want my brother-in-law to wake my sister up (I'd just spent 5 days 24/7 with her after all) but he didn't listen and did. Oh well. I was so early that I not only missed Chicago traffic but the construction workers weren't at work yet so I sailed through Illinois. I stopped for a break in Grinnell, Iowa and was almost to Nebraska before it started raining. It was an easy ride and it felt great to be home. I unpacked, sorted laundry and went to bed early.

I spent the next 2 days doing laundry and cooking. It was wonderful to have healthy, homemade food after eating on the road for a week. My cats were happy I was home, although not so happy when I put on the Bravecto flea stuff, and I was happy to see that all my plants and newly planted things all looked great. I planted my dahlias, which I'd already potted up a month ago, into window boxes and called my flowers done. 

By Sunday, things were back to normal. I did the cats and was sad to see that my favorite cat, Gracie, who was a skinny old girl, had died the day before. I showered and headed to Lincoln, dropping off some donations at Stuff Creative Reuse before meeting Anne and Rene for lunch to hear all about Rene's 2 months in Europe. We all went to Sam's together and then split up. I scored some super cheap yarn grab bags and went to 2 supermarkets to restock from being gone. I made French toast and bacon for supper and called myself recovered.

What a week! Spending 6 of the 7 days I was gone driving all day was tiring. I didn't get as much knitting done as I thought I would despite being the passenger for 4 long days (chalk that up to my sister's driving style, which stressed me out). It was wonderful to get home afterwards but I'm glad we went. Auntie Margaret was the last of that generation and I loved her so much. Totally worth it. Here's a rose that was growing outside the church to remember her by.

Week 22 - Rhode Island Bound

Well, I'd be leaving on Friday for the drive to Rhode Island so I had things to do and plans to make. Otherwise it was a lot of waiting and then a lot of driving.

I had some decisions to make about veggies. To plant or not to plant, knowing I wouldn't be there to take care of them for a week. I decided to throw caution to the wind and planted potatoes and some flowers in one of the veg beds and green and wax beans along my neighbor's chain link by my driveway. I also transplanted all my tiny veg seedlings and set them up in a tray that could be easily watered and tucked them under the deck bench where they'd be shaded. Gardening done.

The rest was getting ready to travel. I ran to Lincoln for gas, a few groceries, kitty litter and got my tires checked. I was madly working on a complicated pair of socks for the Supersock World Championship in hopes that I could get them done before I left and I'm happy to report I got them done. I bought my plane tickets for my beach week and started piling things I'd take, including loading all the yarn for Dottie into the car. I was also taking a tote of things I'd need this summer for the beach week and leaving that at Carolyn's so packed sheets, towels and a few clothes too.

Thursday was a busy day. I made banana bread, did laundry and finished packing that morning and then the rest of the day was jam packed. I had a dentist appointment at 2:00, online training for the American Conversation Project (something for the library) at 3:30, went to dinner with my friend Anna, who was in town for a couple of weeks and would be leaving while I was gone at 5:00. I went straight to the library from there for book club. I set up extra cat boxes and with that was ready to leave.

I had originally thought I'd leave at 9:00 to miss Omaha traffic but that would put me in Chicago traffic at the end of the day so when I woke up early, I left at 7:30 instead. I took a break in Iowa City, which is the halfway point between Wahoo and Dottie's, to hit the MCC thrift shop Dottie and I had discovered when we met there 2 years ago. I also stopped at the yarn shop that had been closed that day and scored a skein of West Yorkshire Spinners Christmas yarn that I'd looked for locally and failed to find. Yay! Unfortunately, there was so much construction on I-80 in Illinois that I was smack in the middle of rush hour traffic outside Chicago so the trip took 11 hours instead of the usual 8.5. Dottie had made one of my favorite dinners - smothered steak - and after enjoying sitting on the porch and chatting, it was time for bed.

We ate a hearty breakfast and headed out for the long drive. We chatted all day and stopped for a late lunch in Mercer, Pennsylvania. We drove all the way through Pennsylvania (if you've ever done it, you know it feels endless) and stayed in a pretty skanky yet expensive hotel in Delaware Water Gap, which is in the Poconos, and almost to New Jersey. We'd eaten lunch so late that we just ate snacks in the room and called it supper.

Dottie suggested we get McDonald's and hit the road but since we were so close to where she used to live in Mount Arlington, New Jersey, I asked if there wasn't somewhere she'd like to eat near there. She was thrilled with the idea and we went to Budd Lake Diner and had a delicious breakfast. And then we were off to a cemetery just over the New York line where Dottie wanted to look for a grave from my mom's father's side of the family. We lucked out that the president of the cemetery was working on a Sunday because he was headed out for summer vacation the next day. He was very helpful but the grave she was looking for wasn't in the database yet (they're working backwards and are 10 years away yet) but we took some pics of other Seeley graves and then headed to Rhode Island.

We arrive at 3:30, which was too early for supper so we went to Job Lot and did some obligatory shopping. Since we had the car, I was hoping to find something big but only managed a welcome mat. I didn't think to load up the truck with my favorite Polar Diet Orange Dry soda, which is only available in New England. I got one box but missed the opportunity to buy lots. Oh well. We met Carolyn and Matt at The Crow's Nest for an early supper and I thoroughly enjoyed fried belly clams and an in person chat. We drove from there to the hotel we'd booked near the airport, checked in and went to bed early after a long couple of days of driving.

The next day would be the funeral. It was a long drive to get there and would be a long way back but it was good that we came. I was hoping it wouldn't be super sad but only time would tell.

Week 21 - Goodbye Auntie Margaret

It was a weird week with storms, cancellations, clinic runs and some fun but ended with the death of my dear Auntie Margaret. Here we go.

My cousin Richard's grandaughter had died from a horrible disease and the visitation was on Monday night. They recently moved to Omaha and I felt like I should go because they have no other local family besides their daughter's. But the weather did not cooperate. There were huge storms with hail forecast for exactly when I'd need to drive so I didn't go. knitting was cancelled too so I stayed home and made a nice dinner while the rain poured down.

It was chilly Tuesday morning, which was perfect because I was making a strawberry/rhubarb pie for dessert since -Lori was coming for lunch. She lives in Omaha now but comes for lunch when she has appointments in town. She was due ~12:30. When it hit 1:15, I texted her only to find out I'd screwed up the date and she'd be coming next month. Sheesh! Totally my fault so I made a quick lunch and went through a cabinet that afternoon. There was knitting too, of course.

Wednesday was the long awaited cinnamon bun trip with Darla. She had seen a reel of a truck driver who does routes in eastern Nebraska who raved about the cinnamon buns in the tiny town of Pilger, which was about 80 miles north of Wahoo, and we were going to get some. Darla picked me up early and we were there by 9:00. Luckily I'd called ahead and had 4 buns put aside because they were already gone. We shared one and then headed out to thrift our way home. Pender had one of the best thrift stores I'd ever been in and we found another great one in Scribner, where we ate lunch in Mel's Bar (delish burger and my favorite tots). We stopped in Hooper for ice cream and then hit the Goodwill in Fremont. It was a totally fun day and ended with the Surivor finale. Here's a pic of some of my favorite thrift scores from the day.

I had nothing beyond taking care of my neighbor's cats on Thursday's calendar. I walked into the bathroom to brush my teeth and when I took a perfectly normal step, something twisted just above my ankle like something I'd never felt before and I was instantly in pain. I limped to take care of the cats and it hurt so much that I called the clinic and got an appointment for 10:00 with a doctor I'd never seen before. She sent me for an x-ray and nothing was broken, which was a big relief. She put a brace on and told me to go home to ice and elevate so that's what I did. I spent the day knitting and started watching a Great Course on the Pacific theatre in WW2. That evening when I took the brace off to take a shower, I had zero pain. It's like it had never happened. What????

There was still no pain Friday morning but I put the brace on anyway and got busy. I had to do the shelter cats that morning and ran some errands in town then spent the afternoon planting containers. Then the phone rang. My dear Auntie Margaret, who was 104, was near death. She's recently fallen and was failing fast. I talked to my sister about whether we would go to the funeral and we decided to go. We got the call Saturday morning that she had died.

I loved my aunt so much. We grew up with Auntie Margaret and my cousins Bette and David at every holiday, event - we even vacationed together. She was always there and such a hoot. After I moved to Nebraska, I would fly into Rhode Island on Thursday mornings so I could crash my dad's weekly lunch with her. She was there for every milestone in my life. She had been housebound for the past few years and couldn't hear to talk on the phone so I feel like I lost her a few years ago. I definitely needed to go to the funeral.

We didn't know when the service would be but I started making calls to make sure I had cats and plants covered. I also had to make decisions on my garden. I planted the rest of my containers but decided to wait on planting my veg beds. There was lots of waiting to hear so the weekend dragged. I finished the WW2 thing, which was also a drag, and we finally heard that the funeral would be a week out on June 1st so we booked a room in Rhode Island. I'd be driving to Dottie's in northern Indiana and then we'd drive to RI from there, which would take a couple of days.

So, what a week, huh? Auntie Margaret was the last of her generation, outliving them all, and the sweetest, funniest aunt I could ever have wished for. Rest in peace, Auntie Margaret.

Week 20 - My Civic Duty

When I retired, one of the things I wanted to do was work at the polls and this week was my first time. Besides that 13 hour day, I had several other full ones too. All good.

Tuesday was going to be a long day and since I was working in Yutan, I needed to take all the food I'd eat all day with me. I prepped that on Monday afternoon and made a pan of blondies to split between knitting and the polls. Unfortunately something had reset on my phone so my texts were messed up and not getting through. I was alone at the library so messaged Andrea only to hear that all the knitters were at the school for the year end concert and I'd missed the texts. I went home and went to bed early.

I got up at 5:30 Tuesday morning and made an omelet for breakfast figuring protein would last longer. I packed up my lunch and dinner plus many craft projects and headed to Yutan. There were 5 of us there and I spent the entire 13 hours writing voters' names in the book after they signed in. I instantly hit it off with the woman doing the sign in book and we chatted the hours away. We only had 128 voters all day and none in the last hour. By then I had my temperature blanket spread across my knees and was weaving in ends. We started packing up early and I was out of there by 8:15 and home by 8:30. It was a long day but didn't drag and I made a new friend, Lori, who is going to start coming to Monday Night Knitting.

I needed 000some recharge time on Wednesday but did get out in the afternoon to plant my driveway containers. I found Goodie's hidey hole in the shade under the wheel barrow while I was planting. I also cleaned up the kitchen, finished a charity hat and talked to both of my sisters plus had tea on the deck. I was recovered and ready for more.

I was going to Helen's on Thursday and decided I'd get bbq ribs for supper so scrambled to put together potato salad before I left. As usual, Helen, Debbie and I chatted the day away and I left in time to get to the library commission before they closed to drop off book club books then hit Stuff (found some sock yarn - yay!), pick up the ribs and get gas at Sam's before heading home. Shortly after I got home, Andrea stopped by to drop off some cookies for me and helped me hook up my hoses too. They snake under the deck so it's much easier with 2 people. It's good to have friends.

It was 95 degrees on Friday so I spent the day inside. I cleared the coffee table and bar (I'd cleared the desk earlier in the week) and cleaned the bathroom and floors before settling down to weave in more ends on my temp blanket. Since the house was clean and I had ribs and potato salad, I called Ana and she came over for supper. She's back in town for a couple of weeks so it was nice to catch up.

Saturday was spinning but not until the afternoon so I had a long chat with Carolyn and another with Dee before picking Andrea up for the usual run. We hit the Restore before spinning then the Estate Dispersal Store, Goodwill and Aldi afterwards. We got a soft serve at Zesto on our way out of town - lemon sherbet, which was way more lemony than the Zesto in Lincoln has. I started Outlander, having waited until all the episodes were out. We had a storm that evening and got 2" of much needed rain. Nice.

I did the cats on Sunday morning and spent extra time with Frito, the cat who was being bullied so is now in the quarantine room. I had been hemming and hawing about getting the new Runza burger and finally caved, spending $12 and it ended up being not worth it. Oh well. I miss BK, which closed recently. I finished Outlander and called it a day. We had a bit more rain - .2" this time. Every little bit helps.

So working the polls was new and fun. I got some things done in the house, planted more containers, had fun with Helen and Debbie and had fun in Fremont. I'll call that a full and nice week.

Week 19 - Started My Containers

It was another week of temperatures swings, starting with heat followed by soup weather with the heat on and ending with high 70's - perfect spring weather. I went with the flow and got all kinds of things done.

It was pretty toasty on Monday so I potted up dahlias and then dyed some yarn to take advantage of the sun and heat for quick drying then made rhubarb sugar cookies to take to knitting, knowing a front was coming through that would cool the house down. Alas, as much as I love all things rhubarg, this facebook recipe was not worth making again. : (

The high on Tuesday was 61 and so I made a big pot of lentil soup, which I've been wanting for awhile. Delish! I also made a nice dinner of asparagus goat cheese pasta. So much yumminess! Otherwise I stayed inside knitting to keep warm. I went through my food cupboards on Wednesday to pull donations for the boy scouts but it really needed doing. I did get outside that afternoon and tried to pull up some of the clay from the backyard dirt pile. I didn't have it seeded so am trying to break through to the grass underneath. Time will tell.

Thursday was the beginning of actual spring weather so I took advantage of being outside. I ran errands in Wahoo before lunch and totally scored at the senior center thrift shop. I don't usually find much there but got a few super fun things - a new placemat for under the cats' water bowl, some bias tape for knitting bag strings, some Paris notecards to gift to Cindy and a vintage tablecloth. Not only is it gorgeous but zero stains. And get this - they were having discount sale and I pulled 50% so all of this was $2.41. Gotta love it. I went outside after lunch and potted up the shade planters for along the garage. My containers make me so happy so it was great to get started.

I had zero motivation on Friday and spent the morning feeling guilty for getting nothing done, especially when I got a text saying they needed someone to take care of the cats at the shelter. I didn't respond. I was going to Lincoln later and had the great idea to call Cindy and see if she'd be up for hanging out and she was. I took fake Aldi frapuccino packets and headed out. We had a lovely time sitting on her back deck and then I headed to Lincoln. Dodie and I were going to Suffs at The Lied Center and meeting for supper at Salty's Lodge beforehand. It is the restaurant that replaced Red Fox, which Layton and I ate at almost every Friday pre-pandemic. They changed nothing inside but the menu was different. Dinner was great and so was Suffs, which I knew nothing about but thoroughly enjoyed.

Saturday was a busy day. For a retiree anyway. I started the day doing the cats at the shelter then threw a rhubarb upside down cake in the oven because I was going to Nancy's husband's 70th birthday party, which was also a goodbye party because they're moving back to California. Lorri and Bob picked me up and we had a wonderful time. Pretty much a friend of Nancy's is a friend I haven't met yet so I had a great time talking the afternoon away. All 3 of their daughters had flown in for the party and I hadn't seen them in years so that was fun too. It was a good time and Nancy and I will be getting together for lunch before they head west in mid-June. I ended the day talking to Dottie well past my bedtime.

That left Sunday for chores. It was gorgeous weather so I hung my laundry on the line and did some raking of the back patch until my rake came apart. It just needs a screw to reattach the head to the pole. I went out to my garden bench and started listening to the audio book for book club, knitting a charity hat while I listened. I ended the week with my tetrazzini that I pulled from the freezer. Yum!

So it was a good week. I started my containers (yay!), had some thrifting fun, did enough to feel productive and had lots of socializing. Even some culture with Dodie! Hopefully the spring temps will stick around for awhile because I have plenty more gardening to get done. Here's hoping.

Week 18 - A Good Mix

Well, the week started with me finding water in my basement where the new wall met the old one after only .3" of rain on the weekend. The contractor was responsive and the week went up from there.

After texting a pic of the wet floor, I called Chris first thing Monday and he said it was normal but he'd come the next day to check. I worked for 45 minutes that morning with Cindy and then made strawberry/rhubarb pie to take to knitting. I also made a small one for Tim, my one time contractor who had checked out the wall and expressed concern with the grading. When I dropped it off he read me the riot act calling BS on water being "normal".

Chris came on Tuesday morning and said he'd extend the wall to the house where there's only a crawl space under the addition. He came on Friday morning and got it all done except for a small piece of a capstone because he ran out. He's also be coming back to paint the outside trim around the egress window. With zero rain in the forecast and drought conditions, it'll be awhile before it's tested but I'm happy with his willingness to extend the wall.

I had some fun with friends this week. On Tuesday, I went to Project Hail Mary in Omaha with Lori. Great movie and I did a much needed Aldi run on the way home before a Ripples zoom at 6:00. Lovely day. I went to campus on Thursday, planning to hit the Hort Club plant sale before meeting with the Emeriti-Retirees membership committee. Alas, when I got there at 9:15, the line to pay was already so long that there was no way I'd make my 10:00 meeting so I grabbed Darla and we went to the Union Starbuck's. After the meeting, I went to lunch with Dana and Cindy at Fattoush for yummy middle eastern food. I ended the week with an Omaha run with Andrea. I didn't need to go but did anyway. We hit Trader Joe's, Whole Foods and the library book sale. It was past lunch so we went to Brazen Head where we both ordered "chowder", which was just soup. $9 fail in my book. Oh well.

I did get some gardening done too. I put up the new fence I bought on Temu this winter, which took longer than I thought to put together, and then loaded it up with the forsythia branches I'd cut to give access to my backyard from the alley for the dirt removal. I was home early enough on Saturday that I prepped the raised bed where I plant early veg, which was late but the weather hadn't cooperated so it is what it is. I cleaned up the hog panels and the driveway sunflowers to get ready for planting pole beans there later. I planted the veg bed on Sunday, put all my overwintered plants outside and then grabbed my friend Lorri to do a flower buying run to Bomgaar's, which was fun.

In other things, I did the cats twice - Friday and my usual Sunday. I went to poll worker training on Wednesday night, which was honestly horribly done with no agenda and no direction on which of the many packets they were following. At least I met 2 women I'd be working with and they're poll working veterans so I can rely on them having learned very little that night.

The weather was all over the board - from high 80's to low 60's for the daily high temps. Also no rain so I was relying on sprinkling the dirt piles front and back plus my newly planted veg bed every single day. This became a problem when I did 3 loads of laundry on Saturday morning and hung most of it outside. Get a load of my birks when I was done.

I'd call that a good week. It had a nice mix of socializing,  getting things done and a better retaining wall which I hope will fix the seepage problem. Starting to garden is always fun. Now to see if I keep up with it this summer. Send good vibes please.

Week 17 - A Spring Cold

The week started well with a nice lunch in the park with my friend Lorri on Monday but then I woke up with a full blown cold on Tuesday. Claritin D rescued me from the crazy congestion and it's a good thing because I had lots to do.

A big front loader and dump truck arrived on Monday and got rid of the rest of both the front and back dirt piles. They made quick work of it but left a layer of packed clay that a power rake couldn't get through, which had been the contractor's plan. He was going to rent a power rake and charge me big bucks for the raking so I told him to skip it and called my lawn guy. Tim confirmed that the packed clay needed to be broken up by hand so despite feeling pretty crappy, I got out there first thing on Tuesday and raked the back myself. That involved swinging a rake over my head to get it to break through the crust and then yanking it back. I couldn't wait because I wanted the workers, who were busy building my retaining wall, to move the chunks I got up. I did the back on Tuesday and the front on Wednesday. They moved the dirt to the alley and it was ready for power raking.

Cam, who mows my lawn, came on Saturday and power raked then came back later right before it rained and seeded the front lawn. The back lawn had lots of grass coming through but the front didn't. Maybe that pile was there longer? No clue but I saved >$300 by having Cam do the work instead of the contrator. Nice.

After the two days of heavy labor while fighting a cold, I spent a lot of time knitting (finished another sock WIP) and streaming over the rest of the week, talked to my sister and my friend one afternoon and did some baking and cooking. On Sunday I was up and out early to take care of the cats at the shelter and water my friend Lorri's seedlings so that I could cross that off and relax for the rest of the day. Then I got a text from my cousin asking if I'd seen her invite. I hadn't gotten a text (turns out she had texted my old cell) but she had invited me for supper. I hemmed and hawed but ended up going. Of course it was fun with great company and yummy food so a nice way to end the week.

Things were looking up for sure. The basement project was finally finished with the retaining wall done and the yard on the mend from the dirt piles. I was off the Claritin D by the weekend and was doing OK. I also had crew free mornings to look foward to. Or so I thought....